Hi Beautiful people ❤
Its been a minute since I wrote a blog post! 😦
I have been so busy for the past two weeks trying to be a productive student, my sleeping pattern is so messed up, but things are a bit settled! Well, at least for the next 3 days.
Anyway, just recently, I was talking to a friend about people who always strive in finding the negative in the most positive things that a person can do and how that creates fear and stopping people from doing what can bring them contentment.
That made me realize that a lot of people still bow down to other peoples opinions on their lives and are still concerned with “What will people say” ?
How many times have you had people dictating every little thing you do with your life? I sometimes wonder if those kind of people have time to actually live their own lives.
Over the years I have mastered the art of dismissing derogatory remarks from condescending people. It can get so annoying when people feel the need to question every move you make and always try to give an opinion on how and how you should do things. Such people can lead you astray if you are not firm on how you want to live your life.
A lot of people really fail to stand firm with the decisions they make or plans they want to achieve because they get swiped by stereotyped people instilling their own kind of notions in them. One thing for sure is that “You are your own kind and no matter what you decide to do with your life, you do not owe anyone an explanation towards that“.
It buffles me how much people are afraid to dream and how they let others limit their abilities. I constantly witness people tapping out on what could bring fulfilment in their lives because they want to avoid “the talkers“.
Life is too short to be living a life that needs to be approved by somebody else.
Everyone has come to this life for a different purpose and we all find fulfillment from different things, we are built to have different desires therefore do not be afraid to step out and pursue what makes you happy even if it is out of your comfort zone.
People will always have a say whether you are doing bad or good, I cannot count how many times people made me feel stupid for pursuing my masters degree “I get this all the time”, and I have had “good” people scrutinizing me for doing pageants simply because you get to wear a bikini publicly. This goes to show that you can never win everyone, people can judge you for simply “breathing” clean air.
Realize that you will always have people plugging onto you an wiggle like tails.
Never fail to stand firm on your dreams, Never stop to pursue your own kind of contentment and Never feel the need to fit in with the norm.
Realize the power that is invested within you and become deaf towards those who question your way of living and choices you make. Judgments are and will always be there and that should be another thing to use to keep you firm and going.
This life is for you to live and to fulfill your purpose, strive to satisfy yourself and stand firm in achieving your dreams.
Live your life fully so you can never wake up with regrets.